When your child dies, the pain and devastation of your loss can feel overwhelming. Some of the immediate emotions in grief are shock, numbness, denial, confusion and disbelief; all of which can act as a cushion against the full impact of your loss.

As time passes some of these early emotions may begin to wear off as others emerge, including guilt, anger, loneliness, despair, sadness and regret; and because of the intensity of all of the emotions you are feeling, you may not be fully able to comprehend all that you are experiencing. These feelings and emotions are all a normal and natural response to the death of someone you love. Every individual will process grief in his or her own unique way. Some can and will express their pain easily and openly, while others will keep their feelings locked inside. Whilst there is no “right” or “wrong” way to grieve, many bereaved parents have found it helpful to have some guidance and support along the way.

Hope and comfort

Many parents turn to IMWIDU for support, finding hope and comfort through sharing their story and being able to say the child's name without fear of others turning away when the tears come. Expressing your thoughts and feelings can ease the loneliness and provide an outlet for your grief in an atmosphere of acceptance and understanding.

How can IMWIDU support ?

1)Live chat

2) Helpline

3) Individual support

4) Online Community

5) Information and advice

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